Glossary of Common Terms.
Bondage and Discipline
Consider these two types of activity separately as you may want bondage but not discipline or vice versa. You can be restrained in bondage using leather cuffs and chains, rope, or be totally enclosed in a body bag, then secured to a table, wall or overhead suspension. Discipline can be training or punishment through physical force to the body. The buttocks can be handspanked, strapped, caned and various forms of punishments devised for nipples and genitals.
Sadism and Masochism
In the Domination context these are activities which cause pain to the submissive (client) by a Mistress who enjoys dispensing pain. Pain can be created by a variety of activities including corporal punishment, hot waxing scratching and stretching. I do not engage in activities such as piercing.
Dominance and Submission
These are the two different stances taken by personal preference. A professional Mistress will take the dominant, controlling role allowing the submissive to enjoy the pleasure of being controlled.
Punishment
Punishment to the body, usually the buttocks including hand spanking, strapping and caning. This type of activity can range from a gentle hand spank interspersed with buttock stroking to a severe, prolonged session with increasingly heavy implements.
Cross-dressing
This is dressing in the clothes of the opposite sex for enjoyment. Some of my clients enjoy dressing simply and sensuously in stockings and petticoats while others enjoy being totally transformed with wigs, make-up, shoes and clothes.
Feminisation, also Forced Feminisation
The dominant party (female) makes the submissive (male) look and feel feminine . By adding an element of dramatic coercion this can be called forced feminisation. Another aspect is the anal penetration of the male.
Humiliation
A sense of being embarrassed, exposed, small and stupid which some submissives enjoy. The situations which embarrass us are individual so it's helpful to give me an example.
Personal Limits
Consideration of safety and personal preference we all have. Both dominant and submissive have to respect each others limits which will be raised in discussion with new clients.
Infantilism, A.B. or Adult Babies
Regressive fantasies of being small again, being dressed and cared for. Warm, firm care from your favourite aunty or mummy figure with plenty of dry nappies and Johnson's baby powder.
Role Play
In this context is the acting out of a fantasy. Each participant takes the appropriate part; there is no written script but the action develops with the lead given by the Mistress. Examples are the slave attending to Mistress's every need and the naughty schoolboy facing the glowering schoolmistress.
Strict
A Mistress who is able to be verbally and physically forceful to ensure obedience.
Safe, Sane, and Consensual
Safe, sane, and consensual, is the standard for satisfying, respectful, Dominant and Submissive relationships whether they be commercial or domestic.
